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Nancy Whitney O'Connell Obituary
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Nancy Whitney O'Connell

April 30, 1928 - August 5, 2025

Nancy Whitney O'Connell Obituary

Nancy Whitney O’Connell, 97, passed away peacefully on August 5, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family. She was born April 30, 1928, in Chicago, Illinois, the beloved daughter of Lafeton J. and Gertrude (Leichsenring) Whitney.


Nancy lived a life full of connection, purpose, and joy. A devoted and active member of St. Peter’s By The Lake – Episcopal Parish of White Lake, she poured her energy and warmth into both her church and the wider community. She never missed an opportunity to be present; whether it was a parish event, a neighborhood gathering, or a family celebration. Her home, much like her heart, was always open.


Family meant everything to Nancy. She cherished time spent with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, delighting in their laughter and sharing stories from her own full and vibrant life. Known for her kindness, quick wit, and unwavering spirit, she had a way of making everyone she met feel valued and at ease.


A proud and lifelong Chicago Cubs fan, Nancy’s love for the game ran deep; through every high, low, and long-awaited victory. She embodied the patience and optimism of a true fan, traits that mirrored her approach to life.


Nancy is survived by: her sons, Jeffrey (Melinda) O’Connell, and Timothy O’Connell; grandchildren, Joel O’Connell, Chris O’Connell, Matthew O'Connell, and Dana (O’Connell) Martinski; 6 great-grandchildren; and many other extended family members.


Nancy was preceded in death by: her husband, Donald R. O’Connell; son, Michael E. O’Connell; granddaughter, Jennifer R. (O’Connell) Stevenson; sister, Jean Whitney; her special cousin, Kendall Mitchell; and other dear cousins, all of whom were important in her life.


In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Peter’s By The Lake – Episcopal Parish of White Lake, 8435 Old Channel Trail, Montague, MI 49437.


Memorial services will be held at 1:00 PM, Saturday, October 18, 2025, at St. Peter’s By The Lake – Episcopal Parish of White Lake, 8435 Old Channel Trail, Montague, MI 49437, with a luncheon to be held immediately following services. Nancy will be interred next to her husband Don, in Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.


Harris Funeral Home, in Shelby, is in charge of arrangements.

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Nancy Whitney O’Connell, 97, passed away peacefully on August 5, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family. She was born April 30, 1928, in Chicago, Illinois, the beloved daughter of Lafeton J. and Gertrude (Leichsenring) Whitney.


Nancy lived a life full of connection, purpose, and joy. A devoted and active member of St. Pete

Events

Interment

Arlington National Cemetery (Arlington, VA)

Arlington, VA

Final Resting Place

Arlington National Cemetery (Arlington, VA)

Arlington, VA